For the second very chilly Saturday in a row, I’ve been proud to be able to publicly march and stand with others who share the same ideals. As a transwoman, today’s event was especially personal as I joined a surprisingly large number of people, considering the weather, on the steps of the Connecticut Supreme Court for the CT Rally to Support Trans Youth. It was also great to see some familiar faces from the trans community as well as friends and fellow activists. The sun even poked out for awhile as if to show its support!
Growing up is hard enough as it is, but when you’re a trans youth it becomes all that much harder even if you have support. Unfortunately, too many trans youth lack that support at home, school and the community. Here in Connecticut, the transgender community has far more rights and access to services than most states in this country. Even so, trans youth still face a lot of challenges.
As with many transgendered individuals, the toughest challenge is in accepting yourself. You know inside that there’s a disconnect between the physicality of what you appear to be and the internal truth of who and what you really are. Understanding and accepting who you were really meant to be is absolutely critical to being able to grow and become yourself. If you can find support, even a single person to listen, care and be there for you, you have a fighting chance.
(In my youth, there was no support to be found, so I hid my true self for many years and it almost ended up killing me on numerous occasions. Fortunately, I hung in there and found the support I needed late in life.)
However, beyond self-acceptance lies the minefield of societal acceptance. Here in New England, it’s much better than down South in the Bible Belt. In many places like that, especially, transpeople of all ages are at far higher risk of dying from suicide or being the victims of sexual violence and hate crimes. And that is not right!
Today, we came together to show our support for Trans Youth and draw attention to the need to respect and accept them for who they are and help them realize their potential to achieve whatever they set their minds to doing. That’s how a society progresses, thrives and makes the world a better place for all of us.
What can you do to help? In CT, contact any of the groups below for more information. Outside of CT, look for local chapters since many of these organizations are national.
Get involved today, because “Trans Rights Are Everyone’s Rights!!!”
The Divine Miss Bri